In case you're curious about my reason for quoting John 3:8 as the title verse for this website, let me just explain for a moment. Note that you will also find my comments on this passage in other portions of the site. At the risk of sounding too redundant I would still like to expound just briefly concerning why I enjoy this verse and what it means to me. As always, I submit this simply as a personal perspective on a passage of Scripture for your consideration and study. May God bless you.
John 3:8 - The wind blows wherever it pleases. You hear its sound, but you cannot tell where it comes from or where it is going. So it is with everyone born of the Spirit.
I think probably most Christians are aware and agree that John 3:8 contains the words of Jesus speaking in reference to those that are "born again" and how this remarkable mystery of the Gospel (where God causes a man's spirit to be completely reborn into something new) is so much like the wind; unable to truly be comprehended (with mere human wisdom) as to how it happens, save that it happens by the grace and power of God. While I agree 100% with this general understanding, I also believe that one of the most important aspects of this point, which I believe Jesus makes in this passage (about those who are born again), is sometimes missed by a casual reading of the text; that is the truth that Jesus says everyone who is "born of the Spirit" is considered in likeness as the wind. When I think of the wind and try to compare the Christian life with this analogy, I am led to a simple conclusion about it - it is not birthed, contained or controlled by any human device; not able to be shoved into a formula, a ritual, a program, church dogma, religious routine, building, legalistic practice, etc.
This is not to say (and I am not suggesting) that Christians assembling together for prayer, worship and mutual edification is wrong or without value (Hebrews 10:24-25), but it is to say that true Christianity is not defined by or embodied in the confines of organized religion (Acts 7:48-51) and the "wisdom" and "ruling" of religious men that so many people feel they must place themselves "under" or be "identified" by their "ministries" (1 Corinthians 1:12-17; 3:4-5). Rather, the Christian's new life in Christ is something brought into existence by the Lord Himself; a supernatural event and therefore not able to be sustained by the flesh. It is something completely spiritual (John 3:6), maintained by the inner working of His Holy Spirit and the freewill response from the one who has given his complete heart to the Lord, not the dictates of organized religion.
A born again person is immediately and completely part of the family of God at his conversion (Ephesians 3:14-15; 1 John 3:1; etc.), regardless of his affiliation or participation in some religious organization (be it a church or anything else). The born again person is a member of the body of Christ (1 Corinthians 12:13), which is the Lord's Church (Ephesians 1:22-23). The believer's fellowship with other Christians transpires because of who he/she belongs to (that "who" being Christ) - but true, biblical fellowship is not defined by mere attendance of religious meetings or participation in religious activities, groups, organizations and programs. To put it in simpler and bolder terms: you can go your whole Christian life without ever once setting foot into a "church" and still have fellowship with your brothers and sisters in Christ (the way the Bible encourages us to); again, fellowship is something you HAVE (not do) because of whose you are.
1 John 1:7 - But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship one with another, and the blood of Jesus Christ his Son cleanseth us from all sin.
It is my opinion that too many Christians place things like church attendance and participation in religious programs in the middle of their relationships with one another. As a result it often divides them and causes them to lose a central focus on Jesus Christ. I think that far too many Christians today are not secure enough in their understanding of who they are in Christ to be able to regard the institution they call "church" as merely an institution (a club, if you will). Too many see it as essential to their Christian lives and have been convinced through tradition that it must exist and it must be maintained. Some even believe it is a necessity to "keep" their salvation or have God show favor on them; to protect them, bless them, keep them safe from the enemy and from error.